The Secret Life of Men

We really do know what women want

February 12, 2009 · 1 Comment

This may get me in trouble, but it’s true. Men know what women want, it’s not that difficult. A woman wants to feel cared for and secure. She wants to know that her man stands behind her and will support her emotional needs and be truthful and honest, no matter how much it may hurt her when he does. Listen, a woman would rather you tell her you’re seeing someone else, or that your just not interested in seeing her anymore or whatever the case may be instead of you lying to her thinking your protecting her feelings. Women hate that shit. I know this from personal experience. Most of the trouble I’ve encountered with any woman came from me trying to be “nice” and spare her feelings from being hurt instead of being honest and telling her the truth. Every man already knows this is what women want. The problem is we have this thing called “man pride” that gets in the way. It would be an affront to our pride to think we actually know what you want and simply didn’t have the capacity to give it to you. And that’s basically what it boils down to; we don’t have the innate capacity to give women what they want.
We spend our entire life trying to outwit, out do and out smart the next man. That usually involves some sort of backhanded, not-always-ethical or moral manipulation. There is always one guy in the room that makes the other guys feel inadequate or threatened. So what do we do? We put on a façade so our true feelings of inadequacy aren’t seen. Bigger houses, prettier wives, faster cars, it’s all a façade. A mask to make the other males think we carry a bigger stick. Unfortunately, we carry this façade over to our relationships with women. This is especially true of American men. We are taught to be tough and show no emotions. Our European counterparts are not afraid to give women the things they need emotionally.
The reality is, we know what you want, but we are too afraid and too egotistical to give it to you exactly the way you want. It’s all about being in charge. When a man gives his woman everything she wants, the way she wants, then other men call him pussy whipped. We HATE the thought of being whipped by the pussy…we’re supposed to whip the pussy!
In the movie “What Women Want” starring Mel Gibson and that ever sexy Helen Hunt, Mel was accidentally electrically shocked and discovered he had the ability to read the thoughts of women. Sure that would make it a lot easier for us, but deep down inside, really deep down inside we already know…

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  • Tim // February 13, 2009 at 6:40 pm | Reply

    I will say that it is not hard to figure out what a woman wants…because it’s basically the same thing the man wants. What’s that want…to be appreciated. The problem is that men and women like to be appreciated in different ways.

    The problem is what you said above a man showing that appreciation is usually referred to him as being pussy whipped. Honestly…I don’t think that is a male trait…I think it’s upbringing.

    I’ll stop here because this could turn into a blog post.

    I did post something similar to this subject. http://timhaynesproject.com/?p=68

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